This one is for all the hearts wondering if they can love again . Being in a relationship can be a very exciting time. However when breakups happen it can leave you feeling very hurt and confused. It’s common to wonder if it’s possible to love again. It takes time to recover from a heart break. You will feel sad, angry and confused, do not try to ignore these feelings instead give yourself time to process them. Check out my blog post on “dealing with a broken heart” for a better understanding. Unfortunately there is no safe way to safeguard yourself from a heartbreak but every time it happens you grow . Remember that love didn’t hurt you, someone who doesn’t know how to love you did .
At the onset of a break up it can look hopeless and feel as though you will never fine love again. It is always difficult to move forward because of the time and energy you have invested. Because this relationship didn’t work out doesn’t mean the opportunity to love won’t happen for you . It takes a strong heart to love and it takes a truly strong heart to love again after being hurt .
When it comes to love I think it’s safe to say we are all looking for the right person. How do you know you found the right person? Allow me to share with you FIVE signs of a good person.
You will feel emotionally stable . The person won’t put you on an emotional roller coaster where your quite uncertain of their interest in you . They will tell you and show you how they really feel about you .
You will fight . A great relationship is about two things . First accepting the similarities and two respecting the differences. Fighting is essential in a healthy relationship depending how you go about it. Couples who ldo not have differences in their relationship are like ticking bombs wanting to explode.
They will communicate and be honest with you . Someone who has real interest in you will be honest from the start. They’ll tell you everything . Even the things you do not expect.
They’ll respect you . Respect who you are , your past , your decisions your interest and your time . They are always willing to respect everything about you .
They’ll always want to spend time with you and do not make excuses . If someone truly wants you they will go out of their way to be with you .
Someday you will meet someone and just click, someone your comfortable with with and you do not have to pretend to be anyone or anything . You won’t have to worry about changing this person. Share with me your thoughts in the comment section.